Who says that we can't love someone?

LOVE

Allah

The Prophet

Parents

Siblings

Friends

Teachers

And our sisters and brothers at the other country.

Love them for the sake of Allah.

It isn't wrong when you are in love.

But It is wrong when you bring her to the wrong way. (etc: couple)

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Falling in love: Allowed in Islam.

"I saw a young man and a young woman and I didn't trust the shaytan not to tempt them." Narrated by Al-Tirmizi (885) and classed as hasan by Al-Albaani in Saheh Al-Tirmizi.

This doesn't mean that it is haram for a man or woman to like a specific person whom he or she chooses to be a spouse and feel love fo that person and want to marry them if possible. Love has to do with the heart and it may appear in a person's heart for reasons know or unknown.

But, if it is because of mixing or looking or haram conversation then it is also haram. If it is because of previous acquaintance, being related or because of hearing about that person, and one can't ward it off. Then there is nothing wrong with that love, so long as one adheres to the sacred limits set by Allah.

Well.. Allah said in Quran. [17:32]

"And do not approach unlawful (before marriage) sexual intercouse. Indeed, it is ever and immorality and is evil as a way."

Dear men,

If you love her,

Marry her. Be an Imam.

If you love her.

Protect and guide her.

If you are truly love her.

Lead her to Jannah. Not to the hell.

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Marry a woman who completely loves her deen, so that you may love each other for eternity in a place where there is no hate; Jannah.

Marry the type of woman who will teach her children how to love Allah, will say to you, "Hold my and let's walk towards Jannah."

When you marry someone only for his/her appearance, it is not love but attraction. Marry a spouse for their deen and who will lead you to Jannah.

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A person may hear that a woman is of good character and virtuous and knowledgeable, so he may want to marry her. Or a woman may hear that a man is of good character and virtuous and knowledgeable and religiously commited, so she may want to marry him.

But contact between the two who admire on another in ways that aren't Islamically acceptable is the problem, which leads to disastrous consequances. In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman of for the woman to in touch with the man and say that he wants to marry her.

Rather, he should tell her guardian (wali) that he wants to marry her and vice versa. As Umar did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and Uthmaan. But if the woman contacts the man directly , this is may leads to slander. (fitnah)

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The permissible ways to get the one whom you loves are sufficient i.e,
Contact the guardian (wali) of the person whom you desire to marry. There is no need to haram means, but we make it hard for ourselves and the shaytan takes advantage of that.

Marriage

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Become realized in your attributed and he will strengthen you with His: